"I don't care if I'm right, I just want to understand." One of my colleagues responded this way after we went back and forth clarifying the definition of a phrase/terminology. She didn't mean it this way but it left such a dagger in my heart. So often, I get myself into heated and unrelenting conversations because I am insisting on my point. I have been really missing the mark by focusing on getting my message across. Seek to understand, not to be right.